Identifying and speaking with the student in distress
Identifying behaviors of students in distress:
- Excessive procrastination and poorly prepared work, especially if inconsistent with previous work.
- Reduced class attendance with little or no work completed.
- Dependency (e.g., the student who hangs around or makes excessive appointments during office hours).
- Listlessness, lack of energy, or frequently falling asleep in class.
- Marked changes in personal hygiene.
- Impaired speech and disjointed thoughts.
- Repeated requests for special consideration such as deadline extensions.
- Threats to others.
- Expressing suicidal thoughts or referring to suicide as a current option.
- Excessive weight gain or loss.
- Repeated interference with effective class management.
- Frequent or high levels of irritable, unruly, abrasive, or aggressive behavior.
- Unable to make decisions despite your repeated efforts to clarify or encourage.
- Bizarre behavior that is obviously inappropriate for the situation (e.g., talking to something/someone that is not present).
- Appearing overly nervous, tense or tearful.
Suggestions for speaking with a student in distress:
- Talk to the student in private.
- Express concern. Be as specific as possible in stating your observations and reasons for concern.
- Listen carefully to everything the student says.
- Repeat the essence of what the student has told you so your attempts to understand are communicated.
- Avoid criticizing or sounding judgmental.
- Consider Student Mental Health Services as a resource and discuss a referral with the student.
In case of an EMERGENCY…
- Call 911
- Campus Safety: (425) 352-5359
For additional support, please contact the CARE Team.